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Homophobia

Tue Aug 14, 2007, 9:01 PM
Even though I'm not a homosexual, I have many friends that are. I found this on another deviants journal and thought it was definitely worth reposting:


I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am one of the lucky ones, I guess. I survived the attack that left me in a coma for three weeks, and in another year I will probably be able to walk again.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.

I am the man who died when the paramedics stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didn’t have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.

Repost this if you believe homophobia is wrong.

  • Mood: Sickened
  • Watching: The Simpsons

stuff that feels good

Wed Sep 13, 2006, 5:00 PM
Falling in love
Laughing so hard your face hurts
A special glance
Getting mail
Taking a drive on a pretty road
Hearing your favorite song on the radio
Lying in bed listening to the rain outside
A bubble bath
Giggling
A good conversation
The beach
Laughing at yourself
Looking into their eyes and knowing they love you
Running through sprinklers
Laughing for absolutely no reason at all
Having someone tell you that you're beautiful
Laughing at an inside joke
Friends
Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you
Your first kiss with your true love
Making new friends or spending time with old ones
Playing with a new puppy
Having someone play with your hair
Sweet dreams
Road trips with friends
Swinging on swings
Holding hands with someone you care about
Watching the sunrise
Knowing that somebody misses you
Getting a hug from someone you care about deeply
Knowing you've done the right thing, no matter what other people think

more about me

Wed Sep 13, 2006, 4:54 PM
1. Do you still talk to the first person you kissed? no
2. Have you ever seen your best friend naked? yes
3. Are you in a Relationship? yes
4. What is the best thing about your job? i dont have a job
5. Do you like more than one person right now? no
6. Are you against same sex marriage? no
7. Did you vote for Bush? dont live in the states but even if i did and i was old enough to vote theres no way i would vote for him
8. Where are you going on your next vacation? whangarei to stay at my dads
10. What do your bed sheets look like? white with blue flowers
11. Do you own any furniture from Ikea? dunno
12. Last book you read? surviving sam
13. If you could have one super power what would it be? to be thin
14. Where have you lived most of your life? hamilton, nz
16. Where do you see yourself in 4 years? alive??
17. What's your favorite smell? vanilla
18. What is your favorite sound? no idea, what kind of question is that
19. Are you moody? sometimes but isnt everyone
20. Favorite movie of all time? in my fathers den and my own private idaho
21. Have you ever done anything hurtful to your classmates? not to my knowledge
22. Have you ever gone to therapy? uhha still there
23. Have you ever Played Spin the bottle? no
24. Have you ever toilet papered someones house? no
25. Have you ever liked someone but never told them? yep
26. Have you ever gone camping? yep, dad used to take us every holidays
27. Have you ever had a crush on your brother's friend? no way
28. Have you ever gone to a nude beach? no
29. Have you ever had a threesome? no
30. Have you ever had a stalker? no, at least not that i know of
31. Have you ever gone skinny dipping? yes
32. Have you ever laughed so hard you cried? yes
34. Have you ever peed standing up? does crouching in the bushes qualify?
36. Have you ever lied to your parents? yes and i got caught so i dont anymore
37. Who do you miss right now? aj
38. Ever thrown up from working out? no
39. Have you ever gotten a haircut so bad that you wore a hat? no
40. Ever eaten 3 meals from 3 different fast food places one day? no
41. Last song you listened to? john mayer-wheel
42. Have you ever spied on someone? no
43. Have you ever slept with one of your coworkers? no
45. Who was the last person who called you? correspondence school
46. when was the last time you slept for more then 12 hours? bound to have been after parachute
47. Have you ever been arrested? no
48. Have you ever stolen anything? yes when i was little
49. Have you ever drank egg nog? yep
50. If you could be anywhere right now where would it be? at the snow

a bit about me

Thu Jul 13, 2006, 9:44 PM
i feel: lonely

i want: someone to come and see me

i am making: nothing

i am wearing: muscle top, hoodie, yoga pants

my best friend is: my mummy

my favorite vacation place is: paihia

i am: me

i want to be: loved

i try too hard to: be what people want me to be

my fear is: i will die alone

my hopes are: that I have a life I can be proud of

when i get older, i: be all that I can be

i look: like I just got out of bed

i enjoy: my friends and family

i HATE: when really horrible nasty people have great lives

my favorite color is: black

my favorite television show is: the simpsons

the person that i'm thinking about is: duncan cos I love him

i love the way: when it hails it looks like snow

summer time is: great for going swimming

my life is: mine to live how I see fit

after school, i: I dnt go to a real school I do correspondence

i am a: human

one thing i can't live without is: water

i: miss wayde

i'm trying to: decide what to have for dinner

it hurts when: I walk into doorways

like my father always says: you're just like your bloody mother (what he doesn't know is that that's actually a compliment as far as im concerned)

i NEED: new clothes

before i go to bed, i: take my medication

the first thing i do in the morning is: stretch

i never knew that: I was going to get through all I have

my lucky number is: 27

my room is: very messy

i can't: do a lot of things

i love going to: paihia

i cry when: i feel the need to do so

it's: a girl

i love the movie: my own private idaho

love is: completely indescribable

traveling is: a great way to learn about yourself

whores are: just people

it is time to: say hi to my mum (she just came home)

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